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  The Psychology of Success in life     There  are  some traits for persons who achieves success.   Here we have seven of  these traits : -   Openness: -   A main factor in success is being open to new experiences, open to new  ideas.   Successful people have Intellectual curiosity which is a critical component of success, Curiosity involves observing others and learning new things, humility in openness, which affords the opportunity to learn and grow.    Be strong enough to be open-minded and to abandon beliefs and strategies that aren’t  working for you.   Internal  Locus of Control:-   To believe that the results you are getting in your life are due to your efforts and the mistakes you experience are your fault, and keeps you from the belief that you are just a hapless victim and nothing is your fault.    People just like you, with similar backgrounds, obstacles, and challenges are creating...

How not to take things personally?     Do you know who many thoughts our brain produces a day? 50,000! and  guess  who many of them are positive? only 10,000, so this means that 80% of our thoughts are negative, that's a lot, isn't it?   While  I'm  driving slowly trying to find specific location, and somebody is driving behind me I feel hunted specially if they started honking and flashing their headlights, I take it personally, I know I  shouldn't , but it just happens.   When someone cancels his appointment last minuet with me, I got the feeling that am not important enough, again I take it personally, also when am talking to a group of people and see somebody not paying attention for example if someone is looking to his smartphone, it just happens,  i  take it personally, but now  i  will not take it personally! why ?                  ...